Though references in comedies or some poorly-created pornos might suggest that a foot fetish is only for the freaks-and-geeks of the world, foot fetishes are actually pretty common and rather simple. Offer a foot massage. But take it slow and keep things simple, Singer advises. If you had an early erotic experience that involved feet, your brain and body may have created a lasting erotic association. If you have a very strong foot fetish, this is something that will need to be explored and negotiated early on in the relationship and it may just become the deal breaker. I would recommend this type of play with a woman you know and are comfortable exploring different ideas with. When you are part of a relationship where your girlfriend accepts your foot fetish, it means that you both make an effort to incorporate foot play into your routine.
In the case of the foot fetish, this can often be traced to an event or situation in which the seeing or touching of feet or shoes became paired with sexual arousal.
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Instead, discovering your own fetishes — no matter how seemingly harmless and simple or outlandish — is essential for having a healthy, indulgent and fulfilling sex life. That is why, when it comes to turning on a new partner or finding a way to become aroused yourself, there is no one-touch-fits-all methodology that works. The Cinderella story refers to her perfect, small foot fitting into the glass slipper. If you are interested in someone for the long haul and potentially even marriage, it is essential that you are upfront about who you are — emotionally, personally, physically and yes, sexually. The first and most important step is to come to terms, as a person, with your fetish.